How to understand that this is your person?
When you look back and analyze what is happening, you can already form a set of special features that clearly show that this person is your destiny. But what to do on a first date, when pink glasses do not allow you to adequately assess the satellite?
Fate or one’s own decision
Often people meet in such situations that it is difficult to predict something. Some people come into our lives and leave, and only a few stay with us forever. Consciously or not, we ourselves attract into our lives such individuals – husbands, friends, colleagues, and more. In psychology, there is one piece of advice to check your other half – is it your personal or not? It is enough to just keep quiet, if you are comfortable in this state, then you will be fine in other circumstances.
How to understand – is it your destiny or not?
1. Trembling on the body when touched, catching breath, trembling knees, excitement.
2. The presence of common interests and views on life – the desire to move forward hand in hand.
3. Trust – without this it is difficult to build a strong alliance.
4. It is important that there was always something to talk about and keep quiet, there were no serious differences in household matters, raising a child (in thoughts about the future).
5. A good sign – is a sense of humor, when partners sincerely laugh at jokes, without the desire to prick or offend each other.
6. a Minimum number of differences and conflicts.
7. You want to make many memories memorable, develop and try to be better for each other.
8. With a man who is your destiny, you do not need to play other roles, pretend, but just be yourself – without makeup, in a robe, with all the advantages and disadvantages.
Psychologists have additionally identified 5 criteria by which you can understand – is it your destiny or not. What do you need to pay attention to?
1. Society for each other is a reward when lovers are well together, not only in joy but also in sorrow. The ability to have fun and be together at every opportunity.
2. Goals and attitudes, and family values have much in common, and therefore there is something to strive for, to move forward, to new heights.
3. Mutual support, when a person comes in a difficult moment, will be there, and will help in word and deed.
4. You value the events that unite you. The first kiss, the anniversary of the relationship, and the wedding date are memorable and inspiring moments in your life.
5. Conflicts are resolved civilly, without tantrums, beatings, insults, and humiliation. Only in this way will love reign and give strength for new accomplishments.
With a man who is destined for you, you do not need to cheat, hypocrisy, or pretend. An important aspect is an intimate life, only a harmonious relationship in bed can be a guarantee of satisfaction for both partners, while not imitating the body or something else to satisfy someone’s ambitions.
A man for you – how is it?
How to understand that for a man you are the other half? There are characteristic signs of this. First of all, all the words of the guy are supported by actions, it is important that behind the beautiful words and compliments were sincere actions of a gentleman – an invitation to a date, the ability to listen, tactfully talk, give a gift, and more.
A man who is interested in a girl will look for reasons to meet her, despite the rain and hurricane. If a person wants to communicate with you, then there is no need to doubt the sincerity of his feelings. He who loves will not sit on the Internet or on the phone, and by all means will look for meetings with a loved one, perhaps unplanned. He will be pleased to see you, look you in the eye, and enjoy your emotions. Another sign – no greed, calculation. Even with a modest income, he will try to surprise you with a bouquet, cake, a cup of coffee, and a ticket to the movies. Of course, you should not ask him for diamonds, so as not to spoil your feelings. If he wants, he will give it as a gift.
Also, the man will seek to know everything about you – parents, occupation, hobbies, and more. You are for him in the first place, he wants to know about the companion as much as possible to be mentally even closer. A man who loves will try to be punctual, not to be late for a date, not to make a girl wait, cunning, and lie at the same time. Lovers respect each other’s opinions, do not try to achieve mercantile goals at the expense of others, sincerely look at the world and rejoice in what is happening.
Warning! Be yourself, do not change your plans for someone, let your interests be common, necessarily – mutual respect and trust.
Girls and women, love and value yourself, do not put a precious partner on the pedestal of honor, such sacrifice will not lead to anything good. Love and be happy!