Sometimes it seems to us that something is wrong in life.
And we would be happy to change everything, but we don’t know what exactly. We have translated an article for you to help you get out of this invisible trap.
– Life is not a straight line. And this is not a set of schedules and schedules. This is normal if you do not have time to graduate from university, get married, find a stable job, start a family, earn capital, and so on. It’s also great to understand that if you haven’t married before the age of 25, become a vice president before the age of 30, or even just haven’t been happy, the world isn’t going to judge you. You can pass it back. You can find what inspires you. You also have the right to time. For some reason, many people forget about it.
Right from the school bench, we begin to make the program of life and with it actually enter university. At the alma mater, we choose the work we will do. Even if we don’t like the program – simply because we have already invested time in it. We go to this job every morning because we need to support the choices we once made. And we take the next step, and then the next and again the next, thinking that we are ticking some kind of checklist of our lives. One day we will wake up depressed. I a very severe depression. We will feel one day that something huge is weighing on us, but we will not know the reason for this. That’s how we ruin our lives.
We run our lives by choosing the wrong person. What is the need for an accelerated relationship? Why are we so fascinated by the idea of being with someone in the first place, and not becoming someone ourselves? Believe me, the love that grows out of comfort, the love that flourishes with the need to sleep next to someone, and the love that serves our attention needs, not our passions, will not inspire you to wake up at 6 a.m. and hug a person who sleeps nearby. Strive to discover fundamental love – a relationship that will make you a better man or woman. “But I don’t want to be alone!” – we often call. Be alone. Eat alone, sleep alone. After a while, you will discover a lot about yourself. You will grow, you will find what inspires you, and you will guide your dreams and beliefs. And when you meet a person who will make each of your cells dance, you will be confident in it. Because you will be confident. Wait. Please, I urge you to wait for her, to fight for her, to make an effort for her, because this is the most beautiful thing your heart will ever experience.
We run our lives by letting the past rule us. Many things happen and will happen in life – this is its property. Disappointment, confusion, days when you felt unnecessary. Such moments and words seem to remain with us. But we must not allow ourselves to be influenced – they were just words. If you allow every, not very pleasant event in life to determine how you perceive yourself, then you will see the whole world in a negative way. You will miss a precious opportunity because you did not get promoted five years ago, convincing yourself that you are stupid. You will miss your love because you will think that your ex-partner left you because you were not good enough, and now you do not trust men or women at all. This is a kind of vicious circle. If you do not allow yourself to leave in the past what happened, was said, and tested, you will continue to look at the world through the prism of your outdated and not very successful perception.
We run our lives when we compare ourselves to others. The number of your Instagram followers will not decrease or increase your value. The number of zeros in your bank account will not affect your compassion, intelligence, or your happiness. A person who has twice as much property as you does not feel double bliss. We are drowning in constant surveillance of whose photos our friends are cursing, who our followers are still subscribing to on Twitter, and, of course, we will not die from it until the end of the day, but in a global sense it is ruining our lives. This creates a need for us to feel important, and we often suppress others to achieve this.
We run our lives by depriving ourselves of feelings. We are all afraid to say too much, to feel too deeply for people to inadvertently learn how much they mean to us. Interest is not synonymous with the word “madness.” Yes, by expressing your special attitude towards someone, you become vulnerable. But there is nothing wrong with that. On the contrary, there is some magic in how you expose your soul and are honest with those who are important to you. Let the girl know that she inspires you. Confess your love for your mother to your friends. Discover yourself, don’t become stony, and be brave in who and how you love. It takes courage.
We run our lives when we tolerate it. When you agree to less than you originally wanted, you are destroying the opportunities that live within you, and in this case, both you and your potential are deceived. Maybe the next Michelangelo is sitting in front of the computer now, eating paperclips documents because I have to pay the bills or because it’s so convenient. Don’t let that happen to you. Don’t ruin your life this way. Life and work, life and love are inextricably linked. We must strive for extraordinary work and the same extraordinary love. Only then do we know all the diversity and bliss of this life.