It is believed that a woman may not be very intelligent, but her life wisdom is an important characteristic that should be inherent in her. So who is this “wise woman”?
You are not lying to yourself
Neither in the main nor in trifles. Because – what’s the point? You will have to rake the problem sooner or later, one way or another. And lies devour the resource, which again will have to somehow fill. Why all this? If he never called, it means he didn’t like you. Point. Fantasies that he went to Guatemala to visit his suddenly ill grandmother, or lost your number, or is so in love that he is ashamed to call – are not your fantasies. You do not engage in self-deception and do not suffer from its consequences.
You are not obsessed with a man
Of course, you love them. But you have something to love besides wonderful guys – your job, your family, your hobby. Of course, you have had men, are, and will be. You may have already found a man with whom you plan to spend the rest of the day. But you don’t think that only at this moment did you finally happen as a woman. You were such a woman to him and will remain so if you suddenly divorce. And most importantly – you will never become a suffocating woman. The same that literally does not allow her husband to breathe fresh air because it constantly hangs on him. You are self-sufficient.
You do not indulge in emotions
If you are happy, you are happy. If you feel bad – you miss. You do not hide your emotions and do not suppress them, because you understand that they are yourself. But a professional sufferer will not come out of you, because you do not screw yourself, do not go through your resentments and losses. In general, you do not arrange a theater for one actress – oh, how I suffered, what a tragedy I experienced! Survived – and thank God, there is nothing to dig into it for years.
You are observant
So, you immediately see when they lie to you, which, of course, is very, very useful. But your inner vision is not selective and is not focused only on yourself. You feel when someone is really bad and you offer help. You see when someone is really happy, and you will celebrate it because the person will be happy.
Your image has developed
You know what works for you and what doesn’t, and you don’t waste time on risky experiments that you’ll later regret. You do not chase the fashion, but follow it and choose only what will fit perfectly into your style. By all means, to impress someone is not your task at all: the main thing is the harmony of external and internal. Most interestingly, from the outside it seems as if you do not make any effort to maintain your beauty, but at the same time, you always and everywhere look appropriate. Exactly as the situation requires.
You set the framework yourself
In any sphere of your life, there are certain limits beyond which you do not want to go. Or, conversely, do not want to let someone in there. And no one and no way can sell these borders. You may be persuaded, bribed, blackmailed, or tried to deceive, but it is a waste of time and effort. Because you decide when, why and for whom this framework can be moved.
You know yourself perfectly well
Your body does not give you unexpected and unpleasant surprises simply because you are attentive to them. You, of course, are a living person and can get sick or suddenly feel bad, but just do not sleep, after all. But you do not have a heavy hangover on the day when you need to look good and be cheerful. Because the day before you stopped exactly when you had to. And this, by the way, is not an iron will at all and not constant self-control – you just feel because of your know-how, and you know how because you understand how important it is.
You know how to analyze
Dreams are a good thing, but you still prefer plans when it comes to something important. And these plans are never impossible. This is again a matter of honesty with oneself, but not in the first place. There is little use of the ability to make plans if you do not have the ability to analyze the situation and calculate options. You can do both.
You live by it
You are interested in the past only in connection with memories and accumulated experience. But to worry about what was done wrong, said wrong, and lived wrong, you will not. And his past also interests you only in the context of “And what was there in general?”. And only. No “And why?”, “But if …” and “How could he!”. The past is over. And as for the future, there is no predicted future, and you understand that perfectly well. Therefore, you can dream and plan, of course, but you have to live now. And you get it.
You remain a woman
You are not going to succumb to stupid tricks in the spirit of “a real woman should …”, but to deny your femininity will not occur to you. With what, in fact, a miracle? Why suddenly give up colors, beautiful dresses and handbags, home comfort, and chatter with friends? Being a woman is wonderful. It’s unwise to give that up, isn’t it?