“The best way to raise a child is to have peace in the family.
We always tend to find flaws in others and not in ourselves. You think your child is bad, while you are a very good mother or a very good father. If you are right, and you are a really good father, then you should be calm, but you are not calm, something is constantly bothering you. You are constantly looking for something in the child to criticize.
He is constantly ready to make remarks to her, and every day many parents resent, criticize, and scold their children. It is wrong. If you are such a good father, why don’t you calm down, respect others, calm down, and take more care of yourself than your child? When I say, take care of yourself, I mean the treatment of the soul, not what other parents say: “I leave my children, go and look in the shop windows. Let them do what they want. I do not care, I will take care of my life! »
I don’t mean that. To be calm so that your child can see that there is a mother and a father in the house and that they are the calmest people – quiet, happy, praying, humble – is what I mean. To deal with oneself not selfishly, but spiritually. Do you know how much help you give to your child when she sees you calm? .. When I say that you should take care of yourself, I mean building a relationship with a husband or wife. To love each other, to learn to live happily in a family, in unity. “